Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Rape Books I Own

Just posting incase anyone else can benefit from a little reading... Be forewarned, though - if you are a survivor, many of the words will strike a cord. It hasn't been easy for my eyes to read over these words... or for my heart to process. I can only do it in breaks - never reading one book from cover to cover and then moving onto the next. Instead, the only way I've been able to read any of this is a few pages here in this book and a few pages there in that book - always random reading... never in order... no rhyme or reason to which parts I choose to read...

I guess I approach this reading in the same way my rape effects & interrupts my life - random, no order, no rhyme, no reason...


JOURNEY TO WHOLENESS - HEALING FROM THE TRAUMA OF RAPE
Vicki Aranow & Monique Lang

THE POST-TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER SOURCEBOOK - A GUIDE TO HEALING, RECOVERY & GROWTH
Glenn R. Schiraldi, Ph.D.

THE SEXUAL HEALING JOURNEY - A GUIDE FOR SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ABUSE
Wendy Maltz

I CAN'T GET OVER IT - A HANDBOOK FOR TRAUMA SURVIVORS
Aphrodite Matsakis, Ph.D. (Specialist in Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder)

TRANSFORMING A RAPE CULTURE
Edited by Emilie Buchwald, Pamela Fletcher, Martha Roth

TREATING THE TRAUMA OF RAPE: COGNITIVE-BEHAVIORAL THERAPY FOR PTSD
Edna B. Foa, Barbara Olasov Rothbaum

THE TRUTH ABOUT RAPE - EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL, PHYSICAL & SEXUAL RECOVERY FROM RAPE
Teresa M. Lauer, M.A.

RECOVERING FROM RAPE
Linda E. Ledray, R.N., Ph.D.

THE RAPE RECOVERY HANDBOOK: STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE FOR SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL ASSAULT
Aphrodite Matsakis, Ph.D.

BEAUTY RESTORED - FINDING LIFE & HOPE AFTER DATE RAPE
Me Ra Koh

QUEST FOR RESPECT - A HEALING GUIDE FOR SURVIVORS OF RAPE
Linda Braswell

TRAUMA AND RECOVERY: THE AFTERMATH OF VIOLENCE - FROM DOMESTIC ABUSE TO POLITICAL TERROR
Judith Herman, M.D.

RECOVERY - HOW TO SURVIVE SEXUAL ASSAULT FOR WOMEN, MEN, TEENAGERS & THEIR FAMILIES
Helen Benedict

SEXUAL ASSAULT - WILL I EVER FEEL OKAY AGAIN?
Kay Scott

I NEVER CALLED IT RAPE - THE MS. REPORT ON RECOGNIZING, FIGHTING & SURVIVING DATE & ACQUAINTANCE RAPE
Robin Warshaw


The books below I have kept "on file" to buy. There are a lot, but I am sure you can understand why I have to do it little by little...

ACQUAINTANCE RAPE: THE HIDDEN CULTURE

THE AFTERMATH OF RAPE

AGAINST RAPE

AMERICAN FOCUS ON RAPE: SERIES VOLUME #1 - RAPE IS A SEX CRIME

THE CAUSES OF RAPE - UNDERSTANDING INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES IN MALE PROPENSITY FOR SEXUAL AGGRESSION

COGNITIVE PROCESSING THERAPY FOR RAPE VICTIMS - A TREATMENT MANUAL

CONFRONTING RAPE & SEXUAL ASSAULT

AGAINST OUR WILL - MEN, WOMEN & RAPE
Susan Brownmiller

AFTER SILENCE - RAPE & MY JOURNEY BACK
Nancy Venable Raine

MEN WHO RAPE - PSYCHOLOGY OF THE OFFENDER
A. Nicholas Groth, H. Jean Birnbaum

WHEN YOU ARE THE PARTNER OF RAPE OR INCEST SURVIVOR: A WORKBOOK FOR YOU
Robert Barry Levine

THE EPIDEMIC OF RAPE & CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE IN THE UNITED STATES
Diana E. H. Russell, Rebecca M. Bolen

IS IT RAPE? - ON ACQUAINTANCE RAPE & TAKING WOMEN'S CONSENT SERIOUSLY (LIVE QUESTIONS IN ETHICS & MORAL PHILOSOPHY)
Joan McGregor

TELLING - A MEMOIR OF RAPE & RECOVERY
Patricia Weaver Francisco

COGNITIVE PROCESSING THERAPY FOR RAPE VICTIMS - A TREATMENT MANUAL (INTERPERSONAL VIOLENCE - THE PRACTICE SERIES)
Patricia A. Resick, Monica Schnicke

EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED - THE IMPACT OF RESEARCHING RAPE
Rebecca Campbell

THE RAPE POEMS
Francis Driscoll

VOICES OF RAPE
Janet Bode

THE EMOTIONAL RAPE SYNDROME - HOW TO SURVIVE & AVOID IT
Michael Fox, Ph.D.

COPING WITH DATE RAPE & ACQUAINTANCE RAPE
Andrea Panot

A NATURAL HISTORY OF RAPE - BIOLOGICAL BASES OF SEXUAL COERCION
Randy Thornhill

HURTING & HEALING - HOW TO OVERCOME THE TRAUMA OF SEXUAL ABUSE & RAPE
Gloria Wade

SEX EQUALITY - RAPE LAW
Catherine A. MacKinnon

WHO'S AFRAID OF THE DARK? A FORUM OF TRUTH, SUPPORT & ASSURANCE FOR THOSE AFFECTED BY RAPE
Cynthia Cawsella

IF SHE IS RAPED - A BOOK FOR HUSBANDS, FATHERS & MALE FRIENDS

RAPED - HOW TO RECLAIM THE POWER YOU LOST THROUGH RAPE TRAUMA

NICE GIRLS DON'T GET RAPED

IF YOU ARE RAPED - WHAT EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO KNOW

ATTITUDES & PERCEPTIONS OF RAPE VICTIMS TOWARD THEIR EXPERIENCE OF BEING RAPED


My last writing project in college was an assignment I created - a research paper entitled, "Psychology of a Rape Survivor." (It was definately one of the hardest things I ever did... the incompletion of this paper prolonged my college career by at least a year just because of how strong the memories & flashbacks were... like now...) I have on file, still, dozens of more rape books from this paper. I will share those later.

I am too tired now. My head is aching and I feel like throwing up. My eyes are burning. My body is really heavy and heated. I feel dirty.

Writing that list of books above just took everything out of me.

Dear God,
Please let me sleep tonight.

6 Comments:

Blogger Marj aka Thriver said...

Hey, thanks for the link! Great list of books, too. You can go to Amazon and sign up to have a link to them so visitors to your blog can go directly there and purchase some of these books--an idea you might want to try.

3/09/2006 12:54 PM  
Blogger Admin said...

Hi there,
Great list of books, I have some on the list. I remember reading one over and over when I was first raped. Then I read sections of different books. The used book store surprised me, many can be found there, if one is in your area. Check it out and make it a fun day, spoil yourself. I also wanted to say thank you for the link too, I will stop in to read your blog. Hope things are going well and enjoy the weekend. God Bless

3/10/2006 12:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi. You're so bold. Is this a blog that all of your friends have access to or is it anonymous? I can't imagine posting my thoughts for everyone to see. I think its great. I only own one of the books on your lists. If you had to choose one, which has been the most helpful? Do you watch movies or tv shows that contain sexual violence?

8/10/2006 6:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you so very much. After my experience I feel it very necessary to read since no one around me understands what I am going through. I am very thankful to you!

7/01/2008 9:59 PM  
Blogger Kouly said...

Thank you so much for your list. I hope you are doing well. My heart goes out to you.

6/27/2011 7:35 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you for the list of books you posted. I just recently decided to try to deal with what happened to me years ago. I want to do it at my own pace and I feel that reading may be the safest and easiest way to begin this long and difficult road to healing. Thank you so much for sharing with others what has helped you along the way. I hope it does for me as well.

12/19/2011 6:33 PM  

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